The Mommy Wars

This article, entitled The Mommy Wars comes from Cathy at bountifulplate.

When you become a mom, don't you think it would be a great idea if you could also strap on a suit of armor to help you fight the Mommy "Wars?" You know the "Wars" I'm talking about, the working moms vs. stay-at-home moms, the breastfeeding moms vs. the bottlefeeding moms.

A popular parenting magazine (Parents) put a question on their Facebook page asking for advice for a mom who had recently become a stay-at-home mom. She was asking how stay-at-home moms get everything done. There were over 400 comments posted and while I didn't read every single one, I read enough to know there is still a very sharp divide between the two groups of women. Several of the comments were pretty downright nasty and judgmental (on both sides).

In my over 17 years of being a stay-at-home mom, I've known working moms that would rather be home and stay-at-home moms that would rather be working!

As far as the breastfeeding vs. bottlefeeding debate, I have been on both sides of that one, since I bottlefed Lauren and breastfed Dominic. Believe me, I have heard it all. That's why I'm saying we need the suit of armor, to help deflect those not so nice things that are said to us sometimes!

Here's an idea - let's instead RESPECT and SUPPORT each other!!! What I have learned in my many years of being a stepmom/mom is that you truly don't know what other moms have going on in their lives sometimes.

Do you walk in another mom's shoes? No, you only walk in your own. Then, who are we to judge another mom's decision about whether to be a working mom or a stay-at-home mom? or to breastfeed or bottlefeed??? How about if we raise the white flag and call it even???

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About the Author...
Cathy B
Cathy is a homemaker, wife and mother to a son with special needs, an adult daughter and stepmom to an adult son.
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