This article, entitled "Refocus on Your Relationship After the Kids Leave Home," is presented by Catholic Charities of Kansas.
Back-to-school season is a period of change for adults and kids alike. Bags are being packed now as thousands of kids prepare to leave home for the first time to attend college, travel or work. As children depart, parents enter a new season of their own that can affect their romantic relationship: empty nesting. During this transition parents have a new opportunity to reconnect with one other.
Love Letters from Kansas, a public awareness campaign sponsored by Catholic Charities of Kansas that promotes the benefits of healthy relationships through free relationship education and marriage enrichment workshops, encourages parents who are new or soon-to-be empty nesters to embrace this opportunity to refocus on their relationship after their kids leave home.
Whether your last child is living in a college dorm or working their first full-time job, once they leave home the dynamic between you and your spouse will change. Some relationship experts label this time as the second half of marriage, a period to reinvent your relationship and determine what you want your future together to be like.
“Many couples experience sadness upon becoming empty nesters, but this important milestone can actually be a joyous experience,” said Melissa Grelinger, interim executive director, Catholic Charities, Diocese of Wichita. “This is an ideal time to rekindle the relationship and pursue activities you might not have had time for as you raised a family. In our free relationship education and marriage enrichment workshops offered across the state, we provide guidance and support for many couples and singles going through the empty nester transition.”
Relationship experts Claudia and David Arp, founders of Marriage Alive, suggest the following tips on marriagealive.com to improve your relationship after the kids leave home.
If sadness from missing your child has an impact on the relationship you have with your spouse or others, the Mayo Clinic recommends the following steps to cope with empty nest syndrome: accept the timing, keep in touch, seek support if you need to and stay positive.
Catholic Charities of Kansas offers a variety of free support services to help individuals and couples strengthen their relationships through all stages, including the process of becoming empty nesters. Relationship education and marriage enrichment workshops are open to singles and couples of all faiths who are looking for tips and tools to enrich existing or future relationships. Find more information on upcoming workshops, as well as other resources to improve your relationship, at www.KansasLoveLetters.com.
About Catholic Charities of Kansas and the Love Letters from Kansas campaign:
In October 2011, Catholic Charities of Kansas received a $1.4 million grant from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families, Office of Family Assistance to provide free relationship education workshops and services to meet family needs throughout Kansas. This grant expands current Catholic Charities of Kansas Marriage for Keeps workshops and services offered in Dodge City, Garden City, Great Bend, Wichita, Pittsburg, Salina, Manhattan, Junction City, Ft. Riley, Topeka, Lawrence, Emporia and Kansas City. These workshops and services include relationship (Within My Reach) and marital (Within Our Reach) education, assistance with accessing community services, employment and career development and parenting classes. Spanish-speaking workshops are also available. The Love Letters from Kansas public awareness campaign educates Kansans on the value of marriage and relationship stability for communities across the state as well as encourages enrollment in local relationship education workshops offered by Catholic Charities of Kansas. For more information, visit www.KansasLoveLetters.com.